6 SIGNS TO KNOW HE IS CHEATING

First of all, I'd like you to know that it's not your fault if you get cheated on. Some guys are just insatiable and no matter how wonderful you are, they'll still cheat. But you can save yourself a lot of heart ache if you mind the signs. Below are six indicators that he is cheating on you;

1. THERE IS A CHANGE IN THE WAY HE GIVES YOU ATTENTION:

This can happen in two ways- too much of it or a lack of it. If the change occurs either way, know that something is wrong. If he is overly sweet and considerate, he might actually love you, and yet again, he might just be covering up his track or transferring some good loving from the other babe to you. On the other hand, if he is always forming too busy, he is probably giving his time to someone else.

At this stage, it's best you don't do anything impulsive or rash, cos you may be wrong. You may also be right and being to early to act gives him enough rope to hang you. If you confront him at this stage, he'd sweet talk his way out of it or make you look like a paranoid girlfriend.  

2. HE NEVER TAKES HIS PHONE OUT OF HIS SIGHT:

When you start noticing this dear, I want to formally welcome you to heart break.

When you guys started out, he is always nonchalant about his phone. He could leave his phone with you, allow you play video games on it, go through his pictures and take pictures with his phone but suddenly the phones becomes the air he breathes and he can not do without it. He goes to the restroom with it. Lol, he even takes it with him to the bathroom. Like, I said welcome to heartbreak, cos he is definitely hiding something or SOMEONE.

3. HE AVOIDS CALLS WHEN YOU ARE AROUND:

There was a time in the 19th century that this would have been considered sweet and thoughtful, but that was then.

Let me share a personal experience, there was this guy that I dated a while back,he said I was his sun and his moon but then I noticed he always avoids calls whenever I'm around him. At first I thought he was being courteous, until one day, a call came through and I had noticed that same name (female by the way) that was always calling. As a sharp girl, I asked him to pick his call and his response was that it was MTN. Immediately, I smelt the dead rat.

4.   HE IS ALWAYS ONLINE BUT HIS CHAT HISTORY IS ALWAYS CLEARED:

Now, you have started suspecting him but you don't know if you are right. But you notice that even when you guys are not chatting he is always online but when you go through his chat, you find that all his conversations has been deleted. Hmmm...

5. THERE'S A NEW PASSWORD OR CODE ON HIS PHONE:

First of all, if you are in a relationship with someone, it should be open and devoid of secrets.

If you used to know his password and suddenly he changes it and refuses to tell you then sweetheart if you don't suspect him, I will.

6. HE HAS ALOT OF FEMALE FRIENDS, TALKS ABOUT THEM BUT NEVER LETS YOU TALK TO THEM:

This is tricky, some guys are good with the ladies and because of this, they have alot of them as friends. While this, may not be a problem, it doesn't mean you shouldn't be observant. If he is always telling you about them, giving you too much information so that he can establish trust especially when they call, chat or text. Kindly suspect him. There is a huge chance that the other lady thinks you too are his friend or worse...a relative. Never forget that guys are smart and a cheat is even smarter. If he doesn't allow you mark your territory, then there's a fat chance it's not yours alone.

Written by: Dami Coker