Hello all, I am in a dilemma.
I have been in a serious and steady relationship for a year and half now and we hope to get married soon.
My problem is that my boyfriend is naturally stingy. I am ardent advocate of romance without finance but men need to understand that even if a woman has a million, nothing pleases her more than knowing her man can provide a hundred for her.
I am very independent and I have my own money but I get broke sometimes cos I have a family to take care of. My bf always had a ready made answer of "I don't have" whenever I tell him to lend me money.
My brother gained admission into the university and I had to pay his acceptance fee. I was very broke so I asked him to lend me some money and he gave his usual answer. I just laughed it off only to discover today that he bought a brand new phone of over 60k and I needed just 25k.
I have made several sacrifices for him in the past including selling my ipad because he needed money to finance something and I didn't have it at that time.
I can go any length for him but he feels it's a taboo if he makes sacrifices for me.
I called off the relationship last night cos as I was telling him he offended me, he just kept shouting that I shouldn't bother him and not drop my problems on his head.
Isn't he the most insensitive lover ever?
My dear pls flee frm hime he is naturally stingy, such persons wunt take care of u wen he marries u he might even demand 4 ur salarynd share it.
ReplyDeleteMy dear sista ,its either he's naturally stingy or der's anoda woman he's givin his moni too..u tuk a gr8t decision,God ll giv u ur own Man @ d rite tim
ReplyDeleteGr8 decision u made sis! A man who loves u ll feel incomplete if he can't meet ur needs. Jst move away frm d devourer. U nd an Alpha male 2 complement ur independent nature nt a man who ll shorten ur wealth. Buh,I feel most of dis problem starts wen a woman is always ready 2 play d role of a man in a relatnship. U may ve started dt role n he got used to it believing u cn alwys sort urself out. Pls read: Act like a lady,Think lk a man. So u dnt mk same mistakes in ur nxt relationship. Tk kia n cheers 2d haPpiness u deserve!
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